Khang ka ea melao ea bongaka ea patlisiso ea tsoang sechabeng a le lilemo dijethale hangata se etsahala ho latela binary; Ka mohlala, Emotional boloetse bo tsoaetsanoang ne e ka ba boitshwaro kapa e ne e se boitšoaro. monahano oa sena binary polarizes puisanong ena, e thibelang boiteko ba ho ntshetsa pele Litloaelo kopanela, o khothalletsa botsoa kelello, 'me absolves bafuputsi bao etsa lipatlisiso e ngotsweng "boitshwaro" ho tloha boikarabelo ba bona ho etsa lintho ka boitshwaro bo eketsehileng. The meqoqo e behang ka ho fetisisa hore ke bone amang melao ea bongaka etsa lipatlisiso susumelletsa ka nģ'ane ho tleloa ke monahano o ena binary ho maikutlo a sa khaotseng ka bang boitshwaro bo lipatlisiso.
A ka sehloohong e sebetsang bothata ba tsa dikgopolo binary ea melao ea bongaka etsa lipatlisiso ke hore e polarizes puisano e susumetsang. Ipiletsang Emotional boloetse bo tsoaetsanoang kapa Latsoang, maqhama, 'me Time e fosahetseng hlama lithuto tsa tsena hammoho le liketso tse sehlōhō' nete ka tsela e ke ke ha thusa. Ho tloha ka tleloa ke monahano binary le puo polarizing ha mohoo o hore re sebelise puo e sarakane ho pata boitshwaro ja fosahetseng. Na le hoo, maikutlo a sa khaotseng ea melao ea bongaka le tla, ke nahana, lebisa puo hlokolosi haholoanyane le e tobileng. Ho ekelletsa moo, maikutlo a sa khaotseng ea melao ea bongaka etsa lipatlisiso clarifies hore bohle-esita le bafuputsi ba etsang mosebetsi oo o se o nkoa "boitshwaro" -should loanela ho theha le ho feta boitshwaro ho leka-lekana mosebetsing oa bona.
Molemo oa ho qetela ea ho falla ba ho nahana e tsoelang pele ke hore e khothalletsa boikokobetso kelello, e leng ho loketse ha a tobane le maemo a thata boitšoaro. Lipotso tse ea melao ea bongaka etsa lipatlisiso ka a le lilemo dijethale ho leng thata, 'me ha motho eo e leng lesoha e lokela ho ba kholisehile ka bokhoni ba hae e be tse ho hlahloba amohele molaetsa ona hantle nepahetse ho nka khato.