3.2 noi ana vs. ka malama ana

Makou mau ana, e pono e ninau kanaka nīnau.

Haawi i nui a me ka nui o ko makou hana ana, he hopu i loko o ke aupuni a me ka hana hoʻomalu ikepili, kekahi kanaka ke manao nei au e noi ana nīnau no ka mea o ka hala. Aka, o kona, aole ia mea. He mea oiaio oiaio i noiʻi, e noi emi e pili ana i kāna hana i loko o ka wā e hiki mai, aka, e like me aʻu i kūkākūkā ma ka Mokuna 2, o ka poe maoli pilikia a me ka pololei, completeness, a me accessibility o na mea he nui nui ikepili kumu. Nolaila, I nui ai ka poe pilikia me keia mau ikepili kumu aha ka mea e noiʻi e hoomau i ka ninau respondents e pili ana i ko lakou hana no ka wā e hiki mai foreseeable.

Ma waho aʻeo kēia mau mea hiki kumu, aia no hoi he nui kahua kumu e ninau: kaʻinaʻikepili-a hemolele 'ana i ka' ikepili, ka mea i kaupalena 'ia. Kekahi o ka mea nui lawelawe nā haumāna a me nā predictors ua na Hui Pūʻia, e like me ka Emotions, ike, 'upu', a me nā manaʻo. Na Hui Pūʻia noho wale no poe kanaka ke poo loko, a ma kekahi manawa i ka pono ala e aʻo mai e pili ana i na Huipuia, he e noi.

Ka mea hiki a inā kumu hoʻokau 'o ka nui ikepili kumu, a pehea la lakou e hiki ai e lanakila i ana, ua manaʻo ma ka Moira Burke, a me Robert Kraut ka (2014) noiʻi ma o ka ikaika o nā pānaʻi aloha i ka hopena i hōʻikeʻia e AaOIeIOUIeXAOAaIN ma Facebook. I ka manawa, Burke, ua hana ma Facebook a ua hilinaʻi komo aku ai iloko o kekahi o na mea papakaukau, a me nā moʻolelo maiau o na kanaka kolohe loa hana. Aka, i mālie, Burke, a me Kraut i e hoʻohana ana i mea e pane i ko lakou noiʻi nīnau. Ko lakou hope o ka ukupanee-i pani i ka respondent Kahalaopuna i kekahi hoaaloha, he na noho a pau wale no i koe i loko o ke poo o ke respondent kāne. Eia, ma ka hou ana i ka hoʻohana 'ana i kekahi anamanaʻo e ohi i ko lakou hope o ka ukupanee, no hoi ia e hoʻohana i kekahi anamanaʻo e aʻo mai e pili ana i kekahi potentially hoopalaimaka hoi aʻe Burke, a me Kraut. I like ko, makemake lakou e hookaawale i ka hopena o ka pü ma Facebook mai ka palapala ma o na auwai a (e like me, mail, kelepona, maka-i-maka). 'Aʻole nō naʻe kūleʻa ma leka uila a me ka kelepona ua koho palapalaia, Aole keia ko läkou' ua loaʻa i Burke, a me Kraut. Hoʻohuiʻia ko lākou anamanaʻo i ka 'ikepili aloha ikaika a me ka non-Facebook AaOIeIOUIeXAOAaIN me ka Facebook log aeaiiua, Burke a me Kraut manao ai, aole palapala Via Facebook i hana ai ma ka mea alakai i hoonuiia manaʻo o ka closeness.

E like me ka hana ana o Burke, a me Kraut kahaki ii ka, nui ikepili kumu e ole hoʻopau i ka pono, e ninau kanaka nīnau. Ma ka mea, aole au e kikoo aku i ke ku pono haʻawina o kēia ao: nui ikepili nae maoli i ka waiwai o ke noi ana nīnau, e like me kaʻu e hoike mawaena o keia mokuna. Nolaila, ke pono ala e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka pilina ma waena o noi, ae nānā hoʻi i ka lakou poe complements mamua pani ai; ua like me Beef, a me jelly lakou. I ka wa laila ua oi aku Beef, kanaka makemake nui jelly; i ka wa laila ua oi aku ka nui aeaiiua, kanaka makemake nui ana.